For the one who remembers everything
The doctor names, the allergies, the gift you gave three years ago, the thing your sister mentioned she wanted. Tend holds all of it, so you do not have to.
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A one-page worksheet that maps everything you are carrying: physical tasks, mental tasks, emotional labor, and the social coordination nobody sees. Print it, fill it in, and finally have a real conversation about it.
You know which pediatrician your kids see. You know that your mom cannot eat shellfish. You know exactly what you gave your brother-in-law for Christmas two years running, and you are determined not to repeat it.
Nobody handed you this job. You just absorbed it. And while it is invisible to everyone else, you know exactly how much space it takes up.
"I am my family's Google. If I got hit by a bus, everything falls apart."
"I have 400 unread texts to myself. That is my system."
"The thing that exhausts me is not the doing. It's the knowing."
Everything in one place. Nothing falling through the cracks.
My People
Sarah, daughter, age 8
Allergies: tree nuts
Dr. Patel, pediatrician
Size: 8/10 kids
Gift History
Dad, 2024: Leather wallet
Dad, 2023: Yeti tumbler
Mom, 2024: Cookbook
Mom, 2023: Candle set
Travel
Italy: June 14 to 22
3 stops, 11 activities
Flight conf: XK4892
Packing: 8 of 22 packed
No complicated setup. No learning curve. Just add things as they come up.
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Add the people you carry in your head. Your kids, your parents, your siblings, your close friends. A name and a relationship is all you need to start.
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Heard something at the doctor's office? Add it to their profile. Your dad mentioned something he'd love for his birthday? Save it as a gift idea. It takes seconds.
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Next time someone asks "what's grandma's medication?" or you need a gift idea, it's all right there on their profile, one tap away.
A real profile for every person you care for. Allergies, preferences, doctor names, quirks. All in one place, always findable.
Never give the same candle twice. Tend tracks every gift you've ever given, so you always know what's been done, and what would feel fresh.
Build full itineraries for every trip. Stops, activities, schedules, what to pack. Download a PDF to share with anyone.
Paste in appointment notes, medication names, diagnosis details. It stays organized and comes back to you when you need it.
Recurring things like insurance renewals, school enrollment windows, and annual physicals. Set it once and Tend handles the remembering.
Shared grocery lists and a task board with a column for each person. Everyone gets to tick things off, kids included.
Nothing shared. Ever.
We do not sell your data. We do not use it to show you ads. We do not share it with anyone, for any reason, at any time. You are not the product. Ever.
Everything is encrypted. You can export or permanently delete everything at any time. No questions asked.
No trials, no tiers, no credit card. Just Tend.
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Everything included, for everyone in the house
No credit card needed.
Start with the free Mental Load Audit. It takes ten minutes and most people say it is the first time they have ever seen their own workload written down.
Let Tend hold it for you.
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